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Post by ifearnoman on Nov 28, 2004 16:54:42 GMT -5
Ifear, I wouldn't have turned down $30/hr. either!  yah I know! lol someone outta tell her that.... oh well! |
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Post by xenabeachgirl on Nov 28, 2004 16:56:28 GMT -5
yah I know! lol someone outta tell her that.... oh well! Tell her you were doing it just so you would have extra money to spend on HER....then take her shopping!! |
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Post by ifearnoman on Nov 28, 2004 17:06:58 GMT -5
Tell her you were doing it just so you would have extra money to spend on HER....then take her shopping!! lol riiiiight I already took her a few weeks ago for her bday. Of course I got a "present" too but..It really wasn't for me to wear  |
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Post by xenabeachgirl on Nov 28, 2004 18:26:11 GMT -5
lol riiiiight I already took her a few weeks ago for her bday. Of course I got a "present" too but..It really wasn't for me to wear A few WEEKS ago?? Man, you gotta spoil her more than that! ....I'm sure your "present" was sweet, but don't save that only for special occasions LOL!! |
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Post by youngblood on Nov 28, 2004 18:40:35 GMT -5
Chad, buy her that new bowling ball that you've been wanting. That way, when she says that you were working and not spending time on her, you say "I did it to buy you this new bowling ball you wanted!" When she says "It's over!!!" and your alone, you at least have that new bowling ball to keep you company at the bowling alley. That way, your just buying a new friend.... |
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Post by ifearnoman on Nov 28, 2004 23:14:39 GMT -5
Chad, buy her that new bowling ball that you've been wanting. That way, when she says that you were working and not spending time on her, you say "I did it to buy you this new bowling ball you wanted!" When she says "It's over!!!" and your alone, you at least have that new bowling ball to keep you company at the bowling alley. That way, your just buying a new friend.... lmfao I spit my soda all over the screen when I read this lol |
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Post by ifearnoman on Nov 28, 2004 23:15:32 GMT -5
A few WEEKS ago?? Man, you gotta spoil her more than that! ....I'm sure your "present" was sweet, but don't save that only for special occasions LOL!! And that wasn't the ONLY thing I bought her! lol She picked out the present anyhow, when I got dragged kicking and screaming into the store!! |
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Post by TLM on Nov 30, 2004 21:19:35 GMT -5
Hang in there. Your attitude sounds good. Find someone who matches you in more than just the bedroom and there'll be fewer bumps in the road. Good luck!
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Post by Arbel on Dec 1, 2004 16:42:06 GMT -5
thanks
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Post by Liftingchic on Dec 2, 2004 22:58:20 GMT -5
well that stinks Shadow.... but you could be like me.. I am single all the time hehe :Happy Spinner: |
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Post by Arbel on Dec 3, 2004 5:26:58 GMT -5
well i got in touch with alot of lady friends of past ...booty calls are a refreshing change ;D
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Post by Tim Wescott on Dec 3, 2004 8:21:28 GMT -5
:Rocker Dude:
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Post by Jesse on Dec 3, 2004 11:58:08 GMT -5
Bootie calls rock!!! In between wifes there was a spell of time where I really enjoyed the single life after getting over the initial shock of the x taking off. I found the lady I am with, once I got back into the grove... chin up bro, it will all pan out!
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Post by GerryT on Dec 5, 2004 7:24:26 GMT -5
Hope you're OK, shadow. Know what it's like, but there is always family, friends and the gym.
Many times good things happen when we least expect them. Usually when a door closes another one opens.
So take it a day at a time and good luck.
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Post by cavemuscle on Dec 5, 2004 9:27:46 GMT -5
Hey Shadow, if it's any consolation, my last relationship was 9 years ago.
Being a bodybuilder, somewhat underemployed, happliy single, and not interested in being a dad at 50 has taken me off the market.
And you know, it's OK.
Family, friends, lifting, scuba, my house all keep me busy, along with my recovery and helping others.
I learned to enjoy it the peaceful solitude.
Feel your feelings, then get into action.
Peace
Brock
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Post by Arbel on Dec 5, 2004 9:33:27 GMT -5
Hey Shadow, if it's any consolation, my last relationship was 9 years ago. Being a bodybuilder, somewhat underemployed, happliy single, and not interested in being a dad at 50 has taken me off the market. And you know, it's OK. Family, friends, lifting, scuba, my house all keep me busy, along with my recovery and helping others. I learned to enjoy it the peaceful solitude. Feel your feelings, then get into action. Peace Brock makes my troubles seem small |
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Post by Tim Wescott on Dec 5, 2004 10:29:49 GMT -5
Bootie calls rock!!! In between wifes there was a spell of time where I really enjoyed the single life after getting over the initial shock of the x taking off. I found the lady I am with, once I got back into the grove... chin up bro, it will all pan out! "In between wifes" !!!!!!!!!!! :Rolling Laugh: |
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Post by xenabeachgirl on Dec 5, 2004 14:08:27 GMT -5
Wow, Brock, GREAT attitude!! :Not Worthy:
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Post by cavemuscle on Dec 5, 2004 14:42:10 GMT -5
Thanks Xena!
Actually, once I realized I did not NEED to be in a romantic relationship, it opened the door for a whole slew of possibilities. I also realized I needed a better relationship with myself, and that meant working hard to be the person i've always thought I could be.
Now I'm too busy and I admit it, a bit too lazy, to go out chasing something I no longer feel the need for.
Instead, I'm hitting the mass building, growing and going, and enjoying life!
It's simple once you give yourself permission to do so!
Brock
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Post by ifearnoman on Dec 6, 2004 2:10:56 GMT -5
makes my troubles seem small shadow...bro you don't even know lol... I got the probs too...I got my girl wanting us to move in together. She keeps asking me to move up to Wisconsin, and I won't...I tell her she can move down here, but I am not going up there *put foot down* At least you ain't got that drama bro..I wanna just pull my hair out. |
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