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Post by Tim Wescott on Nov 27, 2004 17:10:13 GMT -5
That truly sucks bro......STAY STRONG !!!!!  |
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Post by Arbel on Nov 27, 2004 17:19:41 GMT -5
thanks man
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Ken B.
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Post by Ken B. on Nov 27, 2004 18:03:32 GMT -5
been there and back many times Shadowboy.........the iron is always there for you though.
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Post by Tim Wescott on Nov 27, 2004 18:17:09 GMT -5
Ken`s right....failed relationships used to be a big trigger for me to self-medicate, as my depression reared it`s ugly head. Now,after becoming just a tad wiser,I take out my aggression on the iron. No matter how low of a point I reached at any time in my life,when I got my ass off the "pity pot" and got back to the gym my life did a complete 360. The pity pot referance wasn`t directed at you Shadowboy,just speaking from my own past experiences with failed romances. I now have a great wife, but if it were to turn sour,I would be devastated, but I`d be stepping, because beating up on yourself when you are in an uncontrollable situation solves nothing. Get to the gym, and train like a demon unleashed from the depths of Hell,and you`ll soon forget...time heals all wounds. Follow no one!! |
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Post by naturalguy on Nov 27, 2004 19:30:21 GMT -5
Bro, I got divorced a year ago and at the time I thought it was the worst thing in the world. I was hurtin' bad but let me tell you, I am really enjoying the single life. You need to get out, hang out with friends. Put your energy and time into work/school and training.
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Post by OptimumJoe on Nov 27, 2004 20:01:04 GMT -5
sorry to hear shadow. I'm also recently single. We were together for 3 years and ended it about 6 wks ago. Very difficult thing, but things get better bro!!! Focus on yourself and the iron and everything else will fall into place.
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Post by Maximum6 on Nov 27, 2004 20:02:14 GMT -5
hey think of it this way...my girlfriend is bit*hing right now cause i'm getting fatter. ;D Hope you feel better man...they come they go...but the gym will never go anywhere.  |
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Post by xenabeachgirl on Nov 27, 2004 20:22:17 GMT -5
Stay strong, buddy, it will only get better from here! Try to keep yourself busy to keep your mind off of it; before you know it you'll forget all about the pain, and you'll be able to enjoy the single life! |
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Post by Leviathan on Nov 27, 2004 22:21:13 GMT -5
I agree with Tim on this one as well, you need to put yourself and your mind frame in the moment: what do you need to do in the next hour. Live in "Day tight compartments" pretend that nothing but this 24 hour period exists and nothing else. Focus on your feelings for a little bit, don't run from anything mind you, but the best way to heal is to accept things as they are rather than force them to the way we wish them to be.
Go to the gym, get mad at the weights and set some personal records, stay uninjured, eat your meals, go out and do something that ingages your full attention: reading, going to the movies, a book store, shoot pool with some friends, anything that keeps from sitting around and sulking and playing "what if" scenarios in your head.
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Post by Arbel on Nov 28, 2004 0:02:29 GMT -5
wow....thanks for all the support pepole ....realy makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside .... ;D
well i couldnt have asked for more then what i had with her , it was great while it lasted , all i have from her are good memories . and it was a cleam brake up ....asking for more then that is just being greedy
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Post by Tim Wescott on Nov 28, 2004 0:09:00 GMT -5
Real good additude bro....it could have been far worse,kids,property,bills,alimony,court, etc. etc. You`ll feel better soon enough ,just give it time,you`ll see ! Good luck,and stay strong!! |
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Post by Arbel on Nov 28, 2004 5:09:54 GMT -5
thanks again tim ...
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Post by Intensity on Nov 28, 2004 9:07:37 GMT -5
Sorry to hear that, but stay strong! Positive part: You will have moooore time to write on Weights on the Web Good luck! Mo |
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Post by Tim Wescott on Nov 28, 2004 10:09:01 GMT -5
Mo,you crack me up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;D |
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Post by Arbel on Nov 28, 2004 12:27:50 GMT -5
same here
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Post by ifearnoman on Nov 28, 2004 13:48:08 GMT -5
it'll be ok man.
Sometimes women are a lotta trouble lol..More than they are worth, but I love'em so I can't help it! lol
More than they are worth, but you will find the girl for you one day..TRUST ME.
I am currently in the doghouse with my girl right now, because I didn't call off work on turkey day and spend the night with her. It was double time and a half (about $30 an hour) so I couldn't!
She'll get over it, and if she doesn't oh well, but you will find the right girl bro.trust me on that! We are all here for you!
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Post by Arbel on Nov 28, 2004 15:52:20 GMT -5
i'm saveing all that anger inside for back and leg day ...i smell a 500 deadlift and squat in my futere ;D
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Post by Tim Wescott on Nov 28, 2004 15:59:05 GMT -5
That`s the spirit !  |
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Post by xenabeachgirl on Nov 28, 2004 16:26:12 GMT -5
Ifear, I wouldn't have turned down $30/hr. either! |
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