need your advice, think my GF is cheating on me...

[gti steve]

I don´t know were to put this but figured this would be a god spot since all of the guys most my friends chill here.....
I've never talked about this before, but I really need the boards advice on what could be a crucial decision. I’ve suspected for some time now that my girls been cheating on me.

The usual signs… Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.
My girl has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, “Just some friends , you don’t know them.”

I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn’t in a taxi?

I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with her I think deep down I just didn’t want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.

I decided I was going to park my car next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my bmw, that I noticed that the engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?

[GerryT]

Sounds like the relationship needs more fixing than the car! ;D

Take it to a mechanic. He who tries to fix his own car has a fool for a mechanic!

And relationships are based on trust. And there appears to be none here!

[Intensity]

#weirdo3pj# ;D



Take the girl back to the dealer! #bhammersmash6iz#

[Sal Paradise]

Sept 9, 2008 15:36:54 GMT -5 gti steve said:

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with her.....

Your post much confuses this poor mind of mine.
But if you really think she is cheating on you the simply ask.

Depending on the convrsation you can then take it from there.

Beating yourself up about something that is in your mind will simply cause you more headache and stress.
It may even cause you to see things that aren't really there.

If her answers do not ease your mind then it's up to you what steps to take next but I would simply ask first.
Tell her your concerns and go from there.
If she's not willing to ease your mind and thisis truly bothering you then maybe she isn't caring enough to be in a relationship with you at this time.


Jeremy

[gti steve]

cmon guysssss it was a jokeeee

[Sal Paradise]

Sept 9, 2008 18:31:13 GMT -5 gti steve said:

cmon guysssss it was a jokeeee

Thus my poor confused mind is all the worse for wear....


THe punch line was good enough but it doesn't sound far off from what a friend of mine would say when he thought his wife was going behind his back.

Glad to hear it was only a joke.


Jeremy

[RUBICON19]

I am thinking maybe she should trade you in!

[fit]

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#akicksballs2hu#

[mrbeefy]

Well, if ya had her a few years, and she's no longer serving you properly, ie:

Is she still "running smooth"?
Do you have to "check under her hood often"?
Does she have "too many miles on her"?
(Might have to take her out on the highway, and blow out her "carb")
Does she "suck too much gas"?
When was the last time you checked her dipstick?
Was she "down a few quarts"?
Does she have a lot of "dents and scratches"?
How is she with her "top down"?
How much "junk is in the trunk"?

I'd say, "Give her a good "going over" one time, and if she goes down on you again, ( ) without getting you to your destination.......

IMO, I'd say, kick her tires a few times, then trade her in for a "newer and faster model"!

But that's my opinion. Some of the newer models run fast, but are too hard to "break in", and in the long run, cost you too much up front.

That's why I keep my old "jalopy". She may have a few dents, but she's good for the long haul!

;D

[gti steve]

lolololol

[GerryT]

You're the best, Frank!! ;D

Figured this for a joke, and was trying to respond as a joke. Didn't work!!