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Post by str8flexed on Dec 6, 2004 11:19:49 GMT -5
So lately i've been getting alot of IMs from anonymous punks saying "you are a p*ssy", "you look like sh*t" blah blah blah. Doesn't bother me... in fact I kind of like the fact that people are so bothered or jealous of me that they take time out of their day to seek me out and try to insult me. But it's beginning to go too far. As I feared a while back someone might do, this guy IMs me and tells me he's going to email Isabel (my gf) and tell her a detailed story about how I've been cheating on her (which I would never do). Thank god I've prewarned her about something like this happening and she knows I would never think of cheating on her.
Then today I got a PM at bodybuildingforyou.com aikirush sent me a link to a thread where this guy is bashing me saying I took steroids and I'm lying about it, blah blah blah. So I PM him and ask him why he would make up a fabrication about me and he says "some little bird told me this info"
What the heck? What is with these cowards these days? If you got a problem with me... at least have the guts to take it up with me personally. I don't mind the insults... but when people question my honesty and start messing with my personal life... it really ticks me off. Especially about Isabel, she means more to me than anything in my life and the thought of someone trying to mess that up; well my hands are shaking as I type this thinking about it.
Sorry had to let off some steam.
-Layne
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Post by sockrocker on Dec 6, 2004 11:40:58 GMT -5
I would never even pretend to be able to tell you why some people think that other people are their business...In any case, since you've been dealing with this for so long, I trust that you are able to rise above it and take it for what it is...If Isabel is as wonderful as you make her sound (I have no doubt that she IS), then she will also know what you are versus what they say you are...If you stand alone, the group will hate you for it...just keep doing what you're doing
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Post by xenabeachgirl on Dec 6, 2004 12:33:13 GMT -5
It's easy enough to let what people say and think about you control your level of happiness, and it can make you miserable if you let it, I've been there.....
But I know you are much, much stronger than that, you have already shown that by how far you have come!
Rise above it all, let it roll off your back, ignore the haters. They mean nothing.....you know who and what you are, and you are AWESOME!! :Not Worthy:
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Post by Tim Wescott on Dec 6, 2004 13:21:45 GMT -5
I don`t blame you one bit bro............you can bash me, but stay out of my relationship with my wife. These people are pure old jealous haters who don`t have what it takes to make any headway in this sport, so they accuse and bash.....................I`ve been their target before as well,but no one ever posted a pic for a comparison after belittling my efforts!! ;D Use it as fuel to take your training into the insane zone,thus creating further progress,instilling more envy in the hater, and the only eventual winner is you and your physique!! :Rocker Dude: Stay strong bro,you`re above the nonsensical bullsh*te.... although I know how it can piss you off to no end!! :Head Bash:
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Post by str8flexed on Dec 6, 2004 13:52:00 GMT -5
thanks everyone, and I absolutely agree with what you all have said. Insults don't bother me anymore... a year or two ago they might have hurt me... but I am much stronger now and much more confident in myself. However, when someone tries to accuse me of lying and especially someone trying to damage the relationship with the woman I love... that is over the line.
I know Isabel would never give a 2nd thought to any kind of email like that but the fact that someone would even think about trying just burns me up.
-Layne
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Post by Troyster on Dec 6, 2004 15:32:32 GMT -5
First off... messing with me is one thing but mess with my ladie and that's a hanging offense!! But even to the degree that you're being harrassed, it's waaaaaay over the line of anything acceptable. You've obviously dealt with it in fair stride. I doubt there's anyone who wouldn't back you up here. I asked a similar Q in your pic thread but are these folks you've crushed on-stage or just some punks from get*cked.com ?? Have you received such from THIS board??? T
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Post by BeeJ on Dec 6, 2004 15:34:52 GMT -5
I would have never PM'd that guy if I were you. Just ignore them, it's just the internet with a bunch of nerds talking smack with a keyboard and internet connection. Showing them interest only adds fuel to their fire. Then again, I wouldn't really care if some douche sent my girlfriend an e-mail, I would think it was funny. I'm kind of weird like that. ;D Then again, I've had some girlfriends who would have an aneurism if they got something like that. Pre-warn her about it and everything should be kosher.
I always wondered who you were when people would post stuff over at Mayhem about you. I think people dislike you because you know your stuff, lol. bobhedrick has a sig over at Mayhem that says something like, "If everyone likes you, you are doing something wrong." That's so true, so you must be doing something right. I would rather be a guy that speaks my mind and a lot of people dislike then some vanilla Clay Aiken pansy ass "follow-along" anyday.
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Post by str8flexed on Dec 6, 2004 16:19:22 GMT -5
First off... messing with me is one thing but mess with my ladie and that's a hanging offense!! But even to the degree that you're being harrassed, it's waaaaaay over the line of anything acceptable. You've obviously dealt with it in fair stride. I doubt there's anyone who wouldn't back you up here. I asked a similar Q in your pic thread but are these folks you've crushed on-stage or just some punks from get*cked.com ?? Have you received such from THIS board??? T no, this board seems to be full of class acts, doesn't suprise me since a class act runs it.
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Post by Tim Wescott on Dec 6, 2004 16:21:45 GMT -5
Thanks Layne!!
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Post by str8flexed on Dec 6, 2004 16:22:19 GMT -5
I would have never PM'd that guy if I were you. Just ignore them, it's just the internet with a bunch of nerds talking smack with a keyboard and internet connection. Showing them interest only adds fuel to their fire. Then again, I wouldn't really care if some douche sent my girlfriend an e-mail, I would think it was funny. I'm kind of weird like that. ;D Then again, I've had some girlfriends who would have an aneurism if they got something like that. Pre-warn her about it and everything should be kosher. I always wondered who you were when people would post stuff over at Mayhem about you. I think people dislike you because you know your stuff, lol. bobhedrick has a sig over at Mayhem that says something like, "If everyone likes you, you are doing something wrong." That's so true, so you must be doing something right. I would rather be a guy that speaks my mind and a lot of people dislike then some vanilla Clay Aiken pansy ass "follow-along" anyday. haha thanks man and I do feel the same way. Honestly the insults do not bother me. A year or 2 ago, it would have bothered me. I remember last year there was a thread at mayhem that was like 8 pages of nothing but ripping on me. At first is was a tough pill to swallow, but over time I put it on my favorites... I would go back; read it, and smile a bit wider each time. Finally it occured to me that this was the biggest compliment I could ever get. I know my girlfriend trusts me... I told her about it and she pretty much laughed it off. It's the fact that someone would even THINK about doing something like this burns me up. -Layne
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Post by ifearnoman on Dec 7, 2004 0:34:02 GMT -5
Layne, just remember this.
There is no such thing as negative publicity.
And you should think to yourself, "Where have these guys who are insulting me placed in a competition?" Probably no where, unless you count first place in a pie eating contest. Don't let it get to you man....
fu*k the haters!
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Post by Arbel on Dec 7, 2004 4:34:23 GMT -5
dont let it get to you layne ...i remember you from BB.com and your a great guy , so dont give these assho**es a 2nd thought and let them ruin your day .
cuz the bottem line is : your a class act , you have a women that loves you , and thats all that matters .
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Post by str8flexed on Dec 7, 2004 7:23:53 GMT -5
thanks fellas... like I said... I think the insults are funny but this latest episode was a bit over the line. Hopefully everything will chill out for a while and people will just go back to insulting me like normal. On that note someone IMmed me yesterday saying "you squat like a P*ssy" so I think everything is back to normal ;D
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Post by ifearnoman on Dec 7, 2004 7:42:19 GMT -5
thanks fellas... like I said... I think the insults are funny but this latest episode was a bit over the line. Hopefully everything will chill out for a while and people will just go back to insulting me like normal. On that note someone IMmed me yesterday saying "you squat like a P*ssy" so I think everything is back to normal ;D lol I guess someone has a lot of time on their hands.. Be happy man...you have your very own schmoes!
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Post by MikeLifts659 on Dec 7, 2004 10:07:14 GMT -5
From reading numerous message boards it still amazes me the length some guys will go to. I mean dudes weighing a buck fifty telling Jay or Dennis what type of training or diet they should be on, c'mon. I get to the point sometimes where I don't even read the major boards because of the azzclowns.
As for the PM's I would delete them without opening em. Don't give the MOFO the satisfaction of bothering you.
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Post by PassionateBB on Dec 7, 2004 10:20:09 GMT -5
There are cyber-stalking laws in most states and as an example, if someone just annoys you in my state, Calif., it's covered under the law. It's considered harrassment. And harrassment is what this guy is doing to you.
You can go to Cyber-Stalking.net, look up the laws in your state and use that as leverage. Remind the idiot about the law and maybe it will stop.
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Post by GerryT on Dec 7, 2004 10:33:56 GMT -5
Great advice, Peggy and others. Agree, Layne. Didn't care what they said about me, but leave my wife alone.
These are just jealous idiots and you obviously are strong enough to take this nonsense with a grain of salt. Consider the source.
We know here, and more importantly, you and Isabel know what a solid person you are. The rest is irrelevant.
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Post by str8flexed on Dec 7, 2004 11:12:13 GMT -5
yea, like i said it just burns me up that someone would even think about doing something like that. I mean i've been in some heated debates before and I haven't agreed with what alot of people have said, but I would never think of doing something like that. Hell... for that matter I'd never even think of contacting that person... unless I was in an argument with someone who I respected and the argument was getting out of hand.
damn i'm blabbering... sorry I must still be wired from my nutritional biochemistry exam this morning :Happy Spinner:
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Post by ifearnoman on Dec 7, 2004 11:34:35 GMT -5
yea, like i said it just burns me up that someone would even think about doing something like that. I mean i've been in some heated debates before and I haven't agreed with what alot of people have said, but I would never think of doing something like that. Hell... for that matter I'd never even think of contacting that person... unless I was in an argument with someone who I respected and the argument was getting out of hand. damn i'm blabbering... sorry I must still be wired from my nutritional biochemistry exam this morning there is definetly a line you don't cross though, and him writing that to your girl wasn't cool
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Post by bodyfx on Dec 7, 2004 11:34:42 GMT -5
Sorry to hear about this. The web has certainly opened up many avenues for people who are probably cowards in real life, to act like toughmen when typing away on a keyboard, without possibility or repercussion, from the privacy of their home.
Keep it cool though Layne...no need to raise up muscle-destroying cortisol levels!
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