girls!

[BrandonMitchell]

Now that i'm in much better shape I am getting more looks then I ever have from the women. Even older women! which is an EXTEREME turn on for me cause older women are just hot for some reason (to me anyways)

but the thing is; I have NO DAMN idea how to approach a girl.

How do you know if a girl is interested in you? is it just a shot in the dark... cause some girls just check out guys but have no interest in them. But then there are the occassional sweeties that actually want you to approach them

how do I know?? thanks guys/girls

[Tim Wescott]

You`ll never see a closed mouth get fed !!

Smile at `em and just say hi.............if they say hi back,then you ask their name,and hopefully it`ll flow from there.

Don`t be pushy, or rush them,but if you can get a phone number ,it`s a start.

[Maximum6]

its probably your testosterone going crazy....do you supplement with porn ...? ;D

[youngblood]

Do as Tim said.

I went 27 years, and all that time I was the "shy guy." I'd play music gigs, and have women occasionally come up to me and say hello. I'd say "Hi" and leave. They wanted to talk to me, and I never realized it!!!

There is no easy way to talk to a girl. Just do it, as Nike said.
The key is to do it before you think about it, say about 3 seconds. That's the "rule." You see a girl, and you immediately say something, "Hello" or even "Hi my name is Brandon." You want to say something fast, so your brain doesn't react and think "I can't say that" or "She'll never like me."

Talk to her, listen to what she says and respond with feedback about her. Tell her a little about yourself, and that should be that. You'll be able to judge if she likes you or not. And when things go well and she's flirting and smiling, playing with her hair-making nervous gestures in other words- you can probably ask her for her number to "go to dinner" sometime.
If she does give you her number; don't worry about how long to call her. If you want to call the next day, do so. If you want to wait a week, do so. Don't worry about what the movie "Swingers" said to do, or what your friends say. But one thing: Make sure you DO call her!!!
She gave you her number for a reason!!! :hello:

[bodyfx]

Nothing works better than simply making eye contact, smiling, and saying hello. If she smiles and says hello back, just introduce yourself and take it from there. If she does not smile back or tries not to make eye contact, she is probably not interested...or just very shy.

[Freakzilla]

I usually just whistle and give a few "woo-hoo's" in there. If that doesn't win her over nothing will!

Freak

[hossjob]

Great advice by Timbo and bodyfx. Follow it! It is hard to approach girls, however, what's the worst that can happen, they say NO! After a few No's and a few yes's it get's easier and easier! I used to be very shy and now I'm not. I actually see the girls and get them to come over and talk to my friends most of the time bcause they are shy.

[1705total]

Be yourself and sincere. A good sense of humor is important

[Maximum6]

i say keep EYE CONTACT! and dont' sway your eyes some where else on her

[youngblood]

hossjob said:

Great advice by Timbo and bodyfx. Follow it! It is hard to approach girls, however, what's the worst that can happen, they say NO! After a few No's and a few yes's it get's easier and easier! I used to be very shy and now I'm not. I actually see the girls and get them to come over and talk to my friends most of the time bcause they are shy.

I forgot to say something in my previous post, but the above post by Hoss reminded me about it.
The best thing that ever happened to me-over and over again- is rejection!
Who cares if they say no. There's other fish in the sea. You get rejected, go up and talk to another, immediately if possible.
Works for me in recent times...

[BrandonMitchell]

good advice; I start tonight! thanks guys.

I totaly agree with the 3 second before rule; cause my brain does do that! thanks!

[muscles]

confidence is the key